A Gang of Seven

 Pointing the Way


 Two Movements

 Three Sacraments

 Facets of Vital Engagement

 Vital Engagement:
            Life Blood of Trust

 Steps Towards Trust

 Missed Steps

 Unseen Options  

 Justice in Relationships


Mean What You Say

Invite Real Response

Unhook from Edicts & Ultimatums

Imagine What Is Real for You and for Others

Establish Safety Zones

Make Yourself Known When You Feel Rejected

Imagine the Merit in Contending Views

Credit Each Person’s Contribution To Dialogue

Turn Towards the Person You Are Addressing

Contain Confusion By Clarifying Assumptions

Tell Your Story

Redefine Winning and Losing in the Light of Each Person’s Context

Bridge Competitiveness

Surface Complementarity

Reclaim the Moment Over Extended Periods of Time

Address People Directly

Lend Courage to Each Other